Aleteia logoAleteia logo
Friday 18 June |
Saint of the Day: St. Gregory Barbarigo
home iconSpirituality
line break icon

The Vatican Weddings Revisited


Catherine Ruth Pakaluk - published on 10/03/14

Was Pope Francis Causing Scandal?

A kind reader wrote last week saying it was all very nice that the Papal wedding ceremony—with some cohabiting couples—wasn’t as problematic as it initially seemed.  But, he pressed me: hadn’t I avoided the real issue?  That a public wedding ceremony, with the Holy Father presiding, even if canonically defensible had probably caused confusion and given scandal.  Just look at the fawning-near-drooling coverage in the mainstream media.  “Pope more inclusive.” … “Pope makes Church more welcoming to sinners.” … “Pope who said ‘who am I to judge’ refuses to judge cohabiting couples.” My friend ended his letter with a request that I “would address what …would be the purpose of acting in such a manner that could be a point of causing scandal or confusion.”  These are good questions—so here’s a little round-up of things I didn’t get to say.  

1.  The Pope didn’t give scandal.  To give ‘scandal’ one must do something evil or wrong which causes another person to sin (Summa Theologiae, II-II: 43,1) Usually proper scandal also involves enticing or inducing the sin of another—such as drinking to excess and directly drawing a friend into the same behavior. But the Pope didn’t do anything wrong.  Instead he did something entirely consistent with the canonical norms on marriage.  Further, as I argued last time, depending on how you read the sociological data the Pope may have done something we will remember as praiseworthy and highly important for the Church today.  Time will tell.  But, by definition, this is not scandal.

2. The Pope didn’t cause confusion.  To cause confusion you’ve got to do something that specifically obfuscates, subverts, or undermines the teaching of a truth of the faith.  But the Pope didn’t do any of these things.  As a matter of fact, for those who want to understand, the Pope cleared up a number of things. To take just one thing: I’d be willing to bet there a number of the faithful out there who didn’t know before that you could get validly married when you’re not in the state of grace.  Now we can argue about whether that is a good thing to know—or whether this causes instead some kind of moral hazard—but the fact remains that clearing things up sounds like the opposite of causing confusion.

What about those who don’t want to understand?  The writers of those articles with the eager-beaver headlines about the Church going soft and changing its teaching?  Well I have this to say: the Pope didn’t cause their confusion.  This is what we’d call vincible or willful ignorance—because anybody who wants to know what the Church still teaches about marriage, cohabitation, or anything else can freely access a great deal of clear catechesis.  Journalists and other intellectuals have no excuse for saying that the teachings of the Church are changing in any particular way—and no reason for it other than their own wishful thinking.  Furthermore, their opinions and ideas have little to do with the health and vitality of the Church.  

3. The Pope is not a politician.  It is not the job of the Pope to ensure that every action or statement is proofed against someone claiming that it means what it does not mean.  The mainstream media will intentionally spin what the Church does.  This is so obvious it’s not even worth noting, but there it is anyway.  Should the Pope be blamed because there are people who want to undermine the Church’s teachings on sexuality and use every opportunity to do it?

4. The Pope is seeking the lost sheep. The point has been made before, but I’ll make it again. Pope Francis understands himself to be undertaking a ministry to the prodigal sons. He is asking for a profound pastoral shift in the way we go about business as usual in the Church.

  • 1
  • 2
Pope Francis
Support Aleteia!

If you’re reading this article, it’s thanks to the generosity of people like you, who have made Aleteia possible.

Here are some numbers:

  • 20 million users around the world read every month
  • Aleteia is published every day in seven languages: English, French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Polish, and Slovenian
  • Each month, readers view more than 50 million pages
  • Nearly 4 million people follow Aleteia on social media
  • Each month, we publish 2,450 articles and around 40 videos
  • We have 60 full time staff and approximately 400 collaborators (writers, translators, photographers, etc.)

As you can imagine, these numbers represent a lot of work. We need you.

Support Aleteia with as little as $1. It only takes a minute. Thank you!

Daily prayer
And today we celebrate...

Top 10
Cerith Gardiner
Nightbirde’s deep faith shines in her viral performance on ...
Lords' Prayer
Philip Kosloski
What does “hallowed be thy name” mean in the Our Fath...
Magnús Sannleikur
5-year-old boy interrupts homily and asks for prayers for his int...
Philip Kosloski
Padre Pio’s favorite prayer of petition
4 Phrases about Jesus that you should never say to your child
Revista Misión
Interview: The husband of Chiara Corbella on his wife’s sac...
Eric Clapton, Luciano Pavarotti, East London Gospel Choir
J-P Mauro
Hear Clapton and Pavarotti sing a prayer to the “Holy Mothe...
See More
Get Aleteia delivered to your inbox. Subscribe here.