And try living like you know that you are in the world but not of it.
In the beginning of G.K. Chesterton’s deftly illuminating biography of St. Thomas Aquinas lies this thought:
Christ did not tell his apostles that they were only the excellent people, but that they were the exceptional people; the permanently incongruous and incompatible people; and the text about the salt of the earth is really as sharp and shrewd and tart as the taste of salt… Therefore it is the paradox of history that each generation is converted by the saint who contradicts it most.
Like most of Chesterton’s writing, that quote comes at us like an unforeseen stiff jab; it’s odd, jolting and strangely awakening. When we try that passage on like a t-shirt we see that at once it scratches and challenges us, but, simultaneously, somehow it fits perfectly.
From adolescence to our twilight hours, we get so anxious about "fitting in" and "finding our place" in the world. We try to find our group – our place of connection and belonging. We have last names that contextualize our lives in a "clan," we buy t-shirts that manifest our being "part of something" and we find people with whom we come alive. And it goes all the way up: we look for this sense of belonging – this sense of home – in our communities, countries and our planet as a whole. (What else do political and environmental concerns – local or global – boil down to but a worry over the state of one’s hearth and nest?)
This is all very natural; it is a deep human need. We should look to belong somewhere. We should desire a home. But, where is our home? Where do we belong?
can’t be here. If it is here, then while we live we make no sense to ourselves and then, ultimately, we are lost forever. Such a perspective offers us this: we go through life with an insatiable, restless
Sehnsucht that yearns for something "we-know-not-what," something "more"; and, as a culminating capstone, we are ripped from our beds and from our "home" by the death that comes for us all. Life is a meaningless tragedy.
But, no, we are not orphans! We are not stuck out in the cold forever. We do have a home…but it is not of this world. It is the world to come. This is a fact that should change the entirety of our lives. Really.
Now, the challenge: If this is the truth, do we actually live this way?
This should stop us in our tracks. How often do we try to "fit in" and conform to what is around us? How often do we feel the pressure to live by the creeds and impulses of the clay-footed culture of this passing kingdom? How often do we allow a competing compass set our priorities? How often, amidst the copious options encircling us, do we frantically search for our place of belonging – thinking that changing "this" or "that" will finally be the answer?
Thankfully, Christ came to free us from that unquenchable and desperate search. When we finally quit the rat race and rest in Jesus, as always, we discover He has the only answer that helps us understand ourselves. He told us we wouldn’t "fit in":
In the world you have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world. (John 16:33)
Look around – there is a distinct tension between the culture "out there" and the Gospel. This presents an enormous temptation to Christians (as human beings with a natural urge to get along with others) to "go the way of the world" because running against the grain is too isolating and just too darn difficult! It’s simply a lot easier to "get along." But, to do that is to live a lie:
“If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. (John 15:18-19; emphasis added)
We are not of this world. Thus, our lives should manifest that reality. If we are baptized into Christ, we cannot sacrifice and compromise our identity merely to "fit in." It may bring us grief and woe, but Jesus can handle that hurt. He begs us not to give in, but to “run with perseverance the race that is set before us” (Heb 12:1), because in Him alone is life and eternally tremendous glory.