Aleteia logoAleteia logo
Monday 02 August |
Saint of the Day: St. Peter Julian Eymard
home iconVoices & Views
line break icon

Sex and the Media: Five Lessons from 2014


Tom Hoopes - published on 12/29/14

When the cultures of entertainment and sexual relativism collide...

Americans are increasingly obsessed with entertainment and sex, so it is no wonder the two collided this year. Consider these moments of truth — or moments of confusion— in the media this year.

1. Bill Cosby and Woody Allen.

For some of us it was among the saddest developments in entertainment news, but it was a necessary thing: Bill Cosby’s alleged history of rape was made public and thoroughly denounced. It’s hard to imagine watching the Cosby Show or listening to his comedy routines in the same way again. As of December 3, 27 women had accused him of sexually assaulting and/or raping them.

Early in the year, in February, another comedian was in the news as old sex abuse allegations resurfaced: director Woody Allen, accused of sexually abusing his adopted daughter.

Some good could come from the new willingness to report nonclergy sex abuse: The much worse epidemics of abuse in the public schools and Hollywood may begin to be reported and decried as thoroughly as the Church scandals have been.

2. Rolling Stone, Lena Dunham, and rape culture.

If the Cosby and Allen stories were revelations of sex abuse, two other developments helped confuse and obscure the issue.

Rolling Stone went to press with an embarrassingly misreported story that accused a fraternity at the University of Virginia of engaging in organized gang-rape as a hazing exercise. At the same time, a book by HBO’s Girls graphically describes events which some call an admission of sibling abuse, and which others call merely a “sexual narrative.”

The Rolling Stone debacle unwittingly reinforced dangerous clichés about “the girl who cried rape.” The Lena Dunham memoir and her enraged defense of it did a disservice to children suffering sibling abuse. Both stories highlighted the confusion that our culture’s lack of sexual morality has caused, and how our insistence on sexual relativism clashes with our expectation of sexual safety.

3. The Personalization of Journalism.

All of those sexual stories — Bill Cosby, UVA and Dunham — could also said to be the result of the personalization of journalism.

The news isn’t just local anymore; it’s personal. If the 20th century was about media becoming increasingly nationalized, the 21st century is about our  media becoming increasingly individualized. The Global Web Index shows that Pinterest and Tumblr users grew by 110% and 120%. There were 1.35 billion active Facebook users. Youtube had the highest visitation rate with 6 billion hours of Youtube watched each month. More than 9 out of 10 16-64 year-olds have visited Youtube, Facebook, Twitter or Google+ in the past month — 1 in 5 visited all four.

Think of how this affected the news: Bill Cosby’s story “blew up” because one little-known comedian posted his anti-Cosby routine on YouTube. Dunham’s story shows how self-revelatory storytelling can backfire, in a drama that played out on Twitter. Rolling Stone’s story suffers from the same phenomenon — a personal narrative given credibility simply because it exists.

Social Media is a double-edged sword: When everybody has a global platform, the truth can get out — and our errors can get out of control.

4. The Rise of Conscious Uncoupling.

Many of us learned a new phrase this year, when actress Gwyneth Paltrow and singer Chris Martin announced not their separation, but their “conscious uncoupling.”  In her announcement of the event, Paltrow shared a definition of “conscious uncoupling,” reports CNN:

A “conscious uncoupling is the ability to understand that every irritation and argument [within a marriage] was a signal to look inside ourselves and identify a negative internal object that needed healing … From this perspective, there are no bad guys, just two people.”

  • 1
  • 2
Support Aleteia!

If you’re reading this article, it’s thanks to the generosity of people like you, who have made Aleteia possible.

Here are some numbers:

  • 20 million users around the world read every month
  • Aleteia is published every day in seven languages: English, French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese, Polish, and Slovenian
  • Each month, readers view more than 50 million pages
  • Nearly 4 million people follow Aleteia on social media
  • Each month, we publish 2,450 articles and around 40 videos
  • We have 60 full time staff and approximately 400 collaborators (writers, translators, photographers, etc.)

As you can imagine, these numbers represent a lot of work. We need you.

Support Aleteia with as little as $1. It only takes a minute. Thank you!

Daily prayer
And today we celebrate...

Top 10
Saint Mary of the Angels
Bret Thoman, OFS
All your sins will be forgiven if you go to a Franciscan church o...
Ignacio María Doñoro
Francisco Veneto
The military chaplain who pretended to be a criminal to rescue a ...
Theresa Civantos Barber
The one thing we all should do before this summer ends
Violeta Tejera
Carlo Acutis’ first stained glass window in jeans and sneak...
Cerith Gardiner
Gold-winning Filipina Olympian shares her Miraculous Medal for th...
Ary Waldir Ramos Diaz
1st Feast of Our Lady of Silence is August 1
Cerith Gardiner
Simone Biles leaves the Olympics with an important lesson for her...
See More
Get Aleteia delivered to your inbox. Subscribe here.