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Famous Brazilian Catholic singer made headlines with this shocking announcement

Cecilia Music - published on 10/05/16

You announced on TV that you and your girlfriend were living chastity, and the reaction was huge. How do you feel about this announcement now, an announcement that many saw as a great act of courage? What has the reaction been like, in a world that’s not used to this lifestyle?

Many people don’t know this, but a week before the TV program where I made that announcement, I experienced a crisis, and I couldn’t figure out what God wanted from me. During a sermon one day, I began to realize that I was spending more time with the band than with God, and it was consuming me in a way that made me begin to rethink if the band was really for me. So I asked my spiritual director, who prayed with me, asking God for clear signs if it was his will that I be in the band.

Just a week later I got a call from the TV program asking if there was any problem addressing the issue of chastity on the show, as they had heard through a friend that this is how I lived. I spoke with my director, and he showed me that this was the opportunity God was giving me to witness to his love.

I was really nervous, but the Holy Spirit led me in the moment. I was surprised by the proportion of the impact of what I said. I did not expect it all. By the time the show was over, people from the audience and the production team came up to me to congratulate me on my courage, but I didn’t understand why the topic had generated so much surprise. When I got to my dressing room, my phone was already full of messages from around the world, and I came to realize how reversed the values of the world are. And I realized how we as Catholics, in not speaking of our experiences with God, we are being selfish in keeping to ourselves the wonders of the Good God (as St. Therese says). It is so important to bear witness to that love. As St. Francis said, “Take care of your life, it is perhaps the only Gospel people have.”

Tell us, who was Felipe before and after living what the Church teaches?

Chastity was one of the best choices of our lives (Rafa and I), as we have come to understand the true meaning of love. Many view chastity as just abstaining from sex, but it is so much more. Chastity is an exercise of love for God, of self-control, maturity in the relationship, and above all, love and respect for your partner. To live chastely is to put love ahead of the relationship; it is to understand the true meaning of marriage. Being able to walk next to someone you love, with love of God as the goal, is something that is really beyond words. Living chastity is only possible with God, delivering up all of your desires, thoughts, and will into the hands of God, so that He can help you.

You’ve already set a date for your wedding. What are your expectations for your marriage?

We cannot wait to go to the altar and say yes to God, and sign this commitment of our love. It’s so close, and it draws closer day by day, my heart beats faster and grows in gratitude to God, as we know that our love is the result of God’s will, for two people so different to join together can have no other explanation. God wants our sanctification. We realize that because we are different, that means that we must always exercise humility and patience and let God guide us with love. Rafa draws me out of my comfort zone, makes me live my faith more, for every step we take, we give ourselves more to God.

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