Follow these rules to avoid unnecessary, useless, and harsh discussions
How to Write a Successful Critical Comment:
- You should try to explain the position you reject as clearly, vividly, and justly as possible for your own opponent to say, “Thank you, I wish I could have formulated my ideas that way clearly”.
- You should make a list of points on which you agree, especially if you are discussing issues for which there are no tacit or general agreements.
- You should mention anything you have learned from your opponent.
- Only then will you be allowed to make some criticism or refutation.
Certainly, these four simple rules could avoid more than one futile discussion, especially online.
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