In moving message to confessors and future confessors, Francis reminds them to master the art of listening
Pope Francis today offered advice to priests in their ministry as confessors, warning them against giving themselves too much importance, and also emphasizing the importance of listening. He was speaking particularly about confession in the role of vocation discernment.
The pope was addressing an annual course held by the Vatican’s Apostolic Penitentiary.
He said that young confessors and future confessors have the advantage “of being young, and therefore of being able to live the sacrament of Reconciliation as ‘young among the young.'” Proximity in age, the pope reflected, often “favors sacramental dialogue too, due to the natural affinity of language.”
Nevertheless, Francis reminded, this youthfulness also has limits and “even risks,” because “you are at the beginning of your ministry and therefore you still have to acquire all the experience that a ‘consummate confessor’ has after decades of listening to the penitents.”
So then, the pope suggested, two elements can help to live this circumstance. The first is awareness of the priest’s true role in confession.
“The priest-confessor is the source of neither mercy nor grace: he is certainly the indispensable instrument, but always only an instrument,” he said. He warned against trying to become what he called a “master of conscience,” especially with young people “whose personality is still being formed and is therefore far more easily influenced.”
“Remembering to be, and having to be, only instruments of Reconciliation is the first requirement for assuming an attitude of humble listening to the Holy Spirit, which guarantees a genuine effort of discernment. Being instruments is not a diminution of the ministry, but, on the contrary, it its full realization, because to the extent that the priest disappears and Christ the Supreme and Eternal Priest appears more clearly, our vocation of ‘useless servants’ is realized,” he said.
In touch with Jesus
Then, Francis continued, is the importance of listening, and specifically knowing “how to listen to questions before offering the answers.”
“The confessor is called to be a man of listening: human listening to the penitent, and divine listening to the Holy Spirit. Truly listening to the brother in the sacramental dialogue, we listen to Jesus Himself, poor and humble; listening to the Holy Spirit we place ourselves in attentive obedience, we become hearers of the Word and therefore we offer the greatest service to our young penitents: we put them in touch with Jesus Himself,” he said.
In relation to vocational discernment, he said that this is “first of all a reading of the signs which God Himself has already placed in the life of the young, through personal qualities and inclinations, through encounters, and through prayer: a prolonged prayer, in which there are repeated, with simplicity, the words of Samuel: ‘Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.'”
“The colloquy of sacramental confession thus becomes a privileged opportunity for encounter, for both penitent and confessor to listen to the will of God, discovering what His plan may be, regardless of the form of the vocation,” the Holy Father reflected.
“Dear young priests, future priests and dear Penitentiaries, be witnesses of mercy, be humble listeners to the young and to God’s will for them, always be respectful towards the conscience and freedom of those who approach the confessional, because God Himself loves their freedom,” Francis concluded. “And entrust penitents to she who is the refuge of sinners, and Mother of mercy.”
Since you are here…
…we’d like to have one more word with you. We are excited to report that Aleteia’s readership is growing at a rapid rate, world-wide! Our team proves its mission every day by providing high-quality content that informs and inspires a Christian life. But quality journalism has a cost and it’s more than ads can cover. We want our articles to be accessible to everyone, free of charge, but we need your help. To continue our efforts to nourish and inspire our Catholic family, your support is invaluable. Become an Aleteia Patron today for as little as $3 a month. May we count on you?