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See how this mom of 5 transformed her wedding dress into a baptismal gown


© Bérengère H

Cerith Gardiner - published on 11/07/18

This creative idea is full of meaning and captures the family's sacramental life.

A trained architect, keen photographer, military wife, and more recently, a communications officer, Bérengère found herself in a quandary: what to do with her wedding dress?

The mom of five had never been a natural hoarder and didn’t see the point in stuffing her wedding dress into a storage box to place in the garage. The idea of turning it into a cocktail dress didn’t exactly appeal to her, as she wanted to transform it into something meaningful. So, taking into account that the wedding dress is a symbol of purity, when her first child was born in 2004, she decided to make a baptism robe.

Cleverly using some seamstress skills, she cut the length of the white cotton skirt to make a cape. She reduced the size of the waist around the box pleats to make a collar, then assembled a Peter Pan collar and an outer collar stand thanks to piping salvaged from the initial dress. She left two holes for the arms, and presto! From a practical point of view the cape is adapted perfectly for baptisms as it is easy to pull on, contrary to the intricate lace dresses of our grandmothers that necessitated a certain degree of agility and time.

@ Bérengère H
Baptismal robe of Bérengère’s children

A robe full of meaning

For Bérengère, the symbolism of this gown means the most because it “bears the sacramental life of the whole family.” It marks the link between her and her husband’s marriage and the baptisms of their five children — with each of their names and the dates of their baptism embroidered in different colors on the hem of the cape. Not only is it a way to keep track of these unique sacraments, it’s a way to give another meaning to the white dress without spoiling its original identity.

This amazing idea is a great way to combine a thrifty, practical attitude with the profound theology of the sacraments. Not all of us have the skills to do something like this on our own, but we can all look for ways in which we can make meaningful connections between the sacraments we receive and the way we pass on the faith to future generations.


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