This positive activity starts great discussions and helps everyone get to know each other better.
"Thoughtful!" "Helpful!" "Funny!" Compliments come from all sides—a rare occurrence between young siblings—and for good reason: they’re playing the game of “good qualities.”
The principle is simple: a member of the family is designated each turn. The other players mentally think of a good quality that describes the designated person. Once each player has a quality in mind, they share it out loud. The result is a “bouquet” of positive traits for the designated person, which is very rewarding and helps build self-esteem. It’s a game that sometimes holds surprises ("Really? You think I'm generous? Why?") and starts great discussions where everyone gets to know each other better. It can be a real help because it’s always easier to identify the positive qualities (and faults) of someone else rather than your own.
