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3 Words that will transform your everyday life as a couple

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Edifa - published on 08/31/20

A few simple words are enough to make true love blossom. And chances are you already know them!

In the course of his numerous speeches, Pope Francis has reiterated the fundamentals of our faith, wisely summing them up in a few plain words. Among other things he has told us is that our unions, conjugal or fraternal, must be inspired by love that comes from God. To make that union permanent, it must be “built on the rock of genuine affection” instead of “moving sands of emotions.” This love is based on a few simple words that must become a part of vocabulary in every household: Please, Thank you, and Sorry.

Meditating and adopting the right attitude

The word “please” is a signs of respect and consideration, vital in any relationship. We don’t force our love on others; we offer it to them. Our partner and children will undoubtedly be touched by such a thoughtful attitude.


Louie Schwartzberg

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“Thank you” is an expression of gratitude for what the other has given us. Sometimes, thanking our partner may seem excessive or even pointless. So why do we say it for something basic and self-evident? It’s simply because if our spouse didn’t do it, no one else would!

“Sorry” is recognition of the consequences of our actions, small and great.It soothes the hearer. It’s a sign of love we offer and share.

Recognizing that we’ve (consciously or unconsciously) wronged the other and asking forgiveness is undoubtedly a pinnacle of true love. It’s a treasure we don’t use often enough in the relationship with our partners.

Using these simple words every day leads to a fulfilling relationship. The humility thus generated opens us to the Lord and makes our love grow.

Marie-Noël Florant


PATIENCE

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