In a world filled with endless activities and digital distractions, the concept of boredom often carries a negative connotation. This summer, however, consider the profound benefits of allowing children to be bored. It’s not just about giving tired parents a well-deserved break from entertaining kids non-stop. For Catholic families, embracing “boring” moments can open unsuspected doors to creativity, contemplation, and self-discovery.
Boredom sparks creativity
When children are left without scheduled activities or electronic entertainment, they are somehow forced to use their imaginations – something they did when they were just three or four years old. This “unstructured” time allows their minds to wander, fostering creative thinking and problem-solving skills.
Instead of relying on external stimuli, children learn to entertain themselves by discovering new ways to play and create. This spontaneous creativity can lead to innovative projects, artistic endeavors, and a deeper appreciation for the simple joys of life.
From creativity to contemplation
When children engage in creative activities born of boredom, they often enter a state of flow where time seems to stand still. We adults have all been there. Think of when you are working out, or dealing with some more or less mechanical, boring task. You might not like it at first. But soon enough you find yourself doing it while your mind is somewhere else. This immersive and releasing experience can naturally evolve into moments of contemplation and introspection.
In the stillness of boredom, children have the space to get in touch with their thoughts, feelings, memories, and expectations. Such moments are precious opportunities for spiritual growth, allowing young minds to connect with God in silence and solitude.
Discovering new ways to be oneself
Boredom is also a powerful catalyst for self-discovery. Without the constant barrage of activities and media, children can explore their interests and calling more deeply. They learn to understand themselves better by discovering what truly moves them. This journey of self-discovery is critical to building confidence, personality, and a true sense of identity. Encouraging children to deal with boredom on their own helps them realize that they are capable of finding joy and purpose in their own company.
Keep in mind that allowing your children to experience boredom is not a neglectful act, but a gift. It nurtures creativity, encourages contemplation, and opens the door to self-discovery.
This summer, let’s make room for our children to be bored, trusting that in these moments of stillness they will find both themselves and God. As Catholic families, we can use this opportunity to cultivate a deeper, more meaningful connection to our faith and to the beauty of simply being.
