Marriage is one of life’s most meaningful commitments, but as divorce statistics show, that doesn’t mean it’s easy to remain faithful to your spouse. People can find themselves facing temptation for all kinds of reasons -- boredom, emotional disconnection, unresolved conflicts, or even just the desire for attention. And the rise in various dating apps is only helping to facilitate spouses to stray.
However, when those moments come, it's vital to pause and reflect on the deeper value of staying faithful. And this is where the Bible can really help, as it offers both wisdom and encouragement for keeping love, respect, and loyalty at the forefront of any marriage.
Therefore, if you're facing temptation yourself, or know a friend in difficulty, here are five helpful verses from Scripture with a little guidance on why they matter.
"No trial has come to you but what is human. God is faithful and will not let you be tried beyond your strength; but with the trial he will also provide a way out, so that you may be able to bear it." 1 Corinthians 10:13
Why this verse helps: Temptation isn’t unique — everyone faces it. This verse assures you that you’re strong enough to overcome difficult moments. There’s always a way to make the right choice, even if it doesn’t feel like it at first.
"Let your fountain be blessed and rejoice in the wife of your youth, a lovely deer, a graceful doe. Let her breasts satisfy you at all times; may you ever be intoxicated with her love." Proverbs 5:18-19
Why this verse helps: This vivid passage reminds us to cherish the beauty and intimacy of the marriage we already have. Instead of focusing on what’s missing, it invites us to rekindle joy and passion with our spouse.
"Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ loved the church and handed himself over for her." Ephesians 5:25
Why this verse helps: This passage isn’t just about love — it’s about sacrificial love. Marriage asks us to put our spouse first, even when it’s challenging. Reflecting on this kind of love can shift your focus from temptation back to devotion.
"Do not sit at table with a woman whose husband is absent, and do not share in revelry with her, lest your heart be drawn to her and you go down in blood to the grave." Sirach 9:9
Why this verse helps: Sirach gets straight to the point — if you know you're in a vulnerable position, don't put yourself in situations that invite temptation. Creating healthy boundaries is practical wisdom, and it goes a long way in protecting your marriage.
"Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, heartfelt compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another, if one has a grievance against another; as the Lord has forgiven you, so must you also do. And over all these put on love, that is, the bond of perfection." Colossians 3:12-14
Why this verse helps: The characteristics of a Christian are outlined in these verses. They're to be worn like a garment. The overall piece of "clothing" is love, which isn’t just an emotion; it’s a choice and a discipline. Choosing to act in love, even when feelings waver, keeps your marriage strong and centered.
