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The Secret to Praying Better

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Fr Robert McTeigue, SJ - published on 07/15/15

By means of the imagination, we can picture ourselves in the constant company of our loving Father, Who delights in His children, always offering His love and guidance.  I think it is especially fruitful to make such a use of our imagination.  So many Christians I meet conduct themselves as spiritual orphans, living in a world that offers them no provision or protection.  Sadder, perhaps, are those Christians who think of themselves as before the constant presence of the Divine Tyrant, Who must always be appeased, and Whose Love must be earned—if it can be had at all.

If we are to pray always, as Jesus said, we must learn to live in the presence of God, Who is our loving Father Who wants the best for us.  We must learn to be open to a mysticism of immediacy, that is, we must be open to and alert for God’s revelation of Himself at each moment and in every circumstance.  God does not stop working in creation and God does not stop speaking to creation.  If only our eyes and hearts were open to see Him.

Of course, that finding of God in the thick of things, including daily busy-ness, times of crisis, seasons of joy and of sorrow, must be complemented by a rhythm of withdrawal from the fray so that we can be alone with God Who is with us always.  This is what Jesuits mean when we speaking of God calling us to be “contemplatives in action.”

The only good prayer is to pray always.  At every moment, even in the most chaotic and unlikely moments, God is at work and can be found.  That openness to finding God at every moment must be strengthened and refreshed by the freedom necessary to withdraw ourselves, as circumstances allow, so that we may have time alone with the Lord.  We may always draw near to God, always and everywhere, but the wisdom of the saints and Scriptures teaches us that sometimes, to draw near to God, we must withdraw from the world, at least for a while.

Pray better? Not really.  Pray more?  Sometimes.  Pray always?  Yes!  As the Lord commanded!

When I write next, I will reflect on the urgency of worship during times of war and tragedy.  Until then, let’s keep each other in prayer.

Father Robert McTeigue, S.J
. is a member of the Maryland Province of the Society of Jesus.  A professor of philosophy and theology, he has long experience in spiritual direction, retreat ministry, and religious formation. He teaches philosophy at Ave Maria University in Ave Maria, FL, and is known for his classes in both Rhetoric and in Medical Ethics.

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