A reader sent me the link to this bulletin, which carries the note below from a deacon candidate responding to the disturbing newsin the Diocese of Kansas City-St. Joseph. He was scheduled to be ordained a deacon last weekend, but withdrew at the last minute.
Dear Holy Family Parish: After a great deal of soul searching, prayer and reflection, I have decided not to accept the call to Holy Orders that I have received. Because of the recent disclosure of failures within the diocese to protect the people of St. Patrick Parish from harm, I cannot promise respect or obedience that is a part of the diaconate ordination. To me this breakdown in the system that was put in place to protect God’s children is inexcusable. It is with great sadness that I must inform you that I will not be able to serve Holy Family Parish as your deacon. Holy Family has been my spiritual home for over 30 years, and I have received great love and support during many joy filled and sometimes very difficult events in my life. Cindy and I will continue to support Holy Family in what ever way we can and wish to express our appreciation and love to all of you. Jim and Cindy McConnell
My heart breaks to read things like that. I’m sure that was not an easy note to write, or an easy decision to make. My prayers go out to him, and his wife, and the members of his parish family.