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5 Bible quotes if making friends is not so easy

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Cerith Gardiner - published on 03/17/25
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Finding good friends can be very tricky, but take heart from these wise words in the Bible

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Making friends as an adult isn’t always easy. Between busy work schedules, family commitments, and the increasing shift toward digital interactions, meaningful connections can feel out of reach. Loneliness is something many people quietly struggle with, and in fact the "loneliness epidemic" that emerged at the beginning of the 2000s doesn't seem to be dissipating.

It's funny that in a world that's more connected than ever, it’s so easy to feel isolated. Thankfully, however, the Bible offers wisdom, comfort, and guidance for those searching for friendship. Whether you’re feeling alone or simply seeking deeper relationships, these five Bible verses can provide encouragement and perspective -- and who knows, you may even realize that certain people in your life have all the qualities of a good friend, you just may not have seen it.

Scripture's top tips for friendship

"Some friends bring ruin on us, but a true friend is more loyal than a brother." Proverbs 18:24

In an age where social media can make friendships seem disposable, this verse reminds us of the value of true, loyal friends. It’s not about how many people we know, but about the quality of our relationships. Surrounding ourselves with genuine, trustworthy companions is more important than having a large social circle.

"Two are better than one: They get a good wage for their toil. If the one falls, the other will lift up his companion. Woe to the solitary person! For if that one should fall, there is no other to lift him up." Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

This passage highlights the importance of companionship and support. In today’s world, where self-reliance is often praised, it’s easy to forget that we all need help sometimes. True friendship means being there for one another, especially in tough times.

"No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends." John 15:13

This verse serves as a powerful reminder of the depth of true friendship. While we may not be called to make the ultimate sacrifice, real friendships require selflessness, understanding, and a willingness to be there for each other. In a culture that often promotes convenience over commitment, this verse challenges us to be more intentional and giving in our friendships.

"A faithful friend is a sturdy shelter; the one who finds such a friend finds a treasure. A faithful friend is beyond price, no sum can balance their worth. A faithful friend is a life-saving remedy, such as he who fears God finds." Sirach 6:14-16

In a fast-paced world where relationships can feel fleeting, this verse reassures us that true friendship is something to cherish. Good friends provide a sense of security, joy, and emotional refuge. Investing in friendships built on trust and mutual respect leads to relationships that truly enrich our lives.

"Therefore, encourage one another and build one another up, as indeed you do." 1 Thessalonians 5:11

Encouragement is at the heart of meaningful friendships. In a time when negativity and criticism can be overwhelming, being a friend who lifts others up is invaluable. This verse reminds us that friendships thrive when they are filled with support, kindness, and encouragement.

These verses encourage us to seek out and nurture genuine friendships — ones built on loyalty, support, selflessness, and encouragement. If you’re searching for meaningful connections, start by being the kind of friend you hope to find. Friendship, much like faith, flourishes when nurtured with care and sincerity.

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