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DDF gives example of blessing, calls for calm reading of declaration

Blessing Ksiądz w sutannie błogosławi

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Kathleen N. Hattrup - published on 01/04/24

"Let us imagine that among a large number making a pilgrimage, a couple of divorced people, now in a new union, say to the priest: 'Please give us a blessing ...'"
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In a press release published January 4, the prefect and secretary of the Dicastery for the Doctrine of Faith call for a “full and calm reading” of Fiducia supplicans, the much-commented declaration regarding pastoral blessings for those in irregular or same-sex relationships.

The “document is clear and definitive about marriage and sexuality,” the statement affirms, citing various paragraphs that reiterate the Church’s teaching on marriage.

It also points out that different countries will face different situations in applying the declaration.

The DDF leaders point out that the Pope asks for “a way of blessing that does not require the placing of so many conditions to carry out this simple gesture of pastoral closeness, which is a means of promoting openness to God in the midst of the most diverse circumstances.”

10 or 15 seconds

They consider at length what such a pastoral approach could look like:

To be clearly distinguished from liturgical or ritualized blessings, “pastoral blessings” must above all be very short (see n. 38). These are blessings lasting a few seconds, without an approved ritual and without a book of blessings. If two people approach together to seek the blessing, one simply asks the Lord for peace, health and other good things for these two people who request it. At the same time, one asks that they may live the Gospel of Christ in full fidelity and so that the Holy Spirit can free these two people from everything that does not correspond to his divine will and from everything that requires purification.

This non-ritualized form of blessing, with the simplicity and brevity of its form, does not intend to justify anything that is not morally acceptable.  Obviously it is not a marriage, but equally it is not an “approval” or ratification of anything either. It is solely the response of a pastor towards two persons who ask for God’s help. Therefore, in this case, the pastor does not impose conditions and does not enquire about the intimate lives of these people.

Since some have raised the question of what these blessings might look like, let us look at a concrete example: let us imagine that among a large number making a pilgrimage a couple of divorced people, now in a new union, say to the priest: “Please give us a blessing, we cannot find work, he is very ill, we do not have a home and life is becoming very difficult: may God help us!”.

In this case, the priest can recite a simple prayer like this: “Lord, look at these children of yours, grant them health, work, peace and mutual help.  Free them from everything that contradicts your Gospel and allow them to live according to your will. Amen”. Then it concludes with the sign of the cross on each of the two persons.

We are talking about something that lasts about 10 or 15 seconds. Does it make sense to deny these kinds of blessings to these two people who ask for them? Is it not more appropriate to support their faith, whether it be small or great, to assist them in their weaknesses with a divine blessing, and to channel that openness to transcendence which could lead them to be more faithful to the Gospel?

The leaders of the DDF suggest that catechesis is necessary in some places, that can “help everyone to understand that these types of blessings are not an endorsement of the life led by those who request them. Even less are they an absolution, as these gestures are far from being a sacrament or a rite. They are simple expressions of pastoral closeness that do not impose the same requirements as a sacrament or a formal rite.”

Read the full text here.

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