Whenever we scroll through our social media feed, it is almost guaranteed that a post will pop-up that incites our anger.
It could be a piece of news, a picture posted by a friend, or a video that disturbs our peace.
This is especially the case when someone posts something that is plainly wrong, whether from a theological point of view, or even something that goes against common decency.
Our first reaction may be to type away on our phones or computers, letting the world know our very strong opinion.
It may not even be our opinion, but it could be the truth and we are feel a need to correct someone in a very forceful manner.
Does an angry comment, even about the truth, ever benefit anyone?
Nothing is gained
While he wrote in the 17th century, St. Francis de Sales words ring true in the 21st century.
He explains in his Introduction to the Devout Life that angry comments never benefit anyone:
[W]hen it is necessary to contradict anybody, or to assert one’s own opinion, it should be done gently and considerately, without irritation or vehemence. Indeed, we gain nothing by sharpness or petulance.
St. Francis de Sales stresses gentleness and consideration when responding to someone.
How often do we think before we post on social media?
Do we pause for a second and think about how we can be gentle and considerate toward the other person?
Or do we believe that truth will prevail and it "must" be told in the most forceful of terms?
Typically an angry comment will only raise the level of tension and the other person will not be convinced of the truth.
The only thing that is gained is that our ego is increased and we become more prideful than ever, believing that we are right.
St. Francis de Sales quotes two Psalms that should provide for us a guide to our actions, "I said I will take heed to my ways, that I offend not in my tongue...Set a watch, O Lord, before my mouth, and keep the door of my lips."
Think before you comment on social media, striving to let God guide your words.
