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Use this saint’s advice if you question the power of your prayers

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Cerith Gardiner - published on 04/21/23

St. Josemaria Escriva has the perfect response to how meaningful your prayers are, even if you're not in the mood to say them.
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When Sunday morning comes around, it’s not always easy to jump out of bed to go to Mass. Equally, when you’re about to go to sleep and you remember you haven’t said your prayers, it’s sometimes hard to feel motivated to commune with God.

In fact, this reluctance may leave you questioning whether it’s actually worth praying, since you feel your heart isn’t in it. Thankfully, St. Josemaria Escriva has the answer.

In a video that you can see below, the founder of Opus Dei answered a question that he was asked by a student while on a pastoral trip to Brazil in 1974. And her question is one that no doubt many Catholics would love to hear the answer to:

Father, I’m a student, and people in my class often say that you should only go to Mass and pray when you feel like it, because doing things when you don’t really want to
is just hypocritical. What can I tell them? How can I make them see that they’re mistaken?

The Spanish priest, who was known for teaching that we are called to holiness by God, and this can be found in the sanctity of our everyday lives, had the perfect response that should reassure us all that all our prayers are welcomed by God:

“Listen, my daughter, I very seldom really feel like it.

We have to do things we don’t feel like doing, and then, as they’re based on sacrifice,
and are difficult, they are much more fruitful and are worth much more, before God,
they shine like stars in the night.

When you go to do some prayer and you don’t feel like praying and you can’t think of anything to say, put yourself in God’s presence and tell him:

“Lord,” — as you’ve just told me —

“I really don’t feel like talking to you, I don’t want to spend a minute on you,
I feel as if I’m doing you a favor.”

And you’ll hear in the depths of your heart like a sudden shout, loving, but strong,
a cry from God:

“I’m the one doing you a favor when I call you to serve me, when I call you to have a conversation with me, when I tell you that I want to make friends with you, with your very soul.”

And then, whether you feel like it or not, you’ll go and spend time praying every day,
at home, or in the street, or at the office, or in the university, or your studio,
or on the motorway, traveling, or in church, in front of the Tabernacle,
because Christ Jesus is there, our Lady’s son, the son of the Blessed ever-virgin Mary;
Jesus, who was born in a stable, who worked with St Joseph,
and learned from him how to work, and then preached and suffered his Passion
and was crucified for love, letting himself be nailed to the wood of the Cross.

He is waiting for us there;
because you and I know through faith that hidden in the sacramental species is Christ.

Christ is there: his Body, his Blood, his Soul and his Divinity, a prisoner of love.
We’ll go there, not feeling like it, but knowing that he’s listening to us, to tell him that we don’t feel like it — and we are already praying.

And you’ll see how he speaks to you, how he moves you, how you end up
learning how to converse, to chat with our Lord, and how the day you don’t talk to God,
whether you feel like it or not, that day you’ll be hungry to pray, you’ll feel the need to pray.”

With the saint’s wise words in mind, when you hear God’s invitation to pray to Him, remember the comfort to be had by checking in with our Heavenly Father, seeking His advice, and offering up our gratitude.

In some respects God can remind us of our earthly parents. He reminds us to do things we don’t always want to do, but when we’ve done them we always feel better for having listened — and even when we don’t listen, He still loves us and is waiting for us to get there in the end!

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